Look — men and women are different, and not just the obvious biology lesson. How we tick, how we think, how we feel, and how we interact with the world is all based upon something evolution has been working on since there were human beings. For most of human history men in general, and certainly husbands, had nothing to do with birth. When I was making my documentary Pregnant in America, Dr. Michel Odent, a world-leading expert on the subject, told me, “The men should go outside and chop wood and leave the women alone to give birth.”
While Dr. Odent’s contribution to modern maternity care has been in many ways revolutionary, this particular advice caught me off guard, but it also sparked my curiosity. What was my role in the birth of my child?
Let’s be honest, in today’s society, our gender roles have gotten a bit complicated and confusing. Society is now asking for different things from men. Gone are the days sitting in the waiting room with our cigars, waiting for a hearty pat on the back. (more…)