Lessons from the Year of Living Sick-ishly
By Hygeia | Saturday, January 14th, 2012The following is a guest post by Jessie C. Gruman, PhD who is the president and founder of the non-profit organization Center for Advancing Health. It was originally posted on the Prepared Patient Forum blog on January 11th.
By Jessie Gruman. “Buck up. You are going to feel bad for a year.”
This was my chemotherapy nurse a year ago, returning a call I made to my oncologist. I had left a message asking whether there was something he could do to help me. Should I feel this horrible following three action-packed months that included stomach cancer surgery and aggressive chemotherapy?
The answer, at least as far as my nurse was concerned, was “Yes.”
And she was right. It did take a year to regain my energy and feel well again.
The new year set me reflecting about what I’ve learned about being sick over the past 12 months that only the experience itself could teach me:
You know that old Supremes song, “You Can’t Hurry Love”? I learned that you can’t necessarily hurry healing either, even if you work hard at it. A week after that call to my oncologist – still feeling rocky – I joined a local gym’s “$30 for 30 days” New Year’s special to try to revive my cardiovascular fitness. For each of the next 30 days, I trudged down there, got on that Nordic Track machine and forced myself to flail about for 40 laborious minutes. On most days last year, I made myself walk at least a mile and practice yoga. I did my level best to choke down a tiny healthy snack almost every waking hour. Often, doing these simple tasks took all the energy and will I possessed. But I was committed, convinced that if I did them, I would get better faster.
And it still took a year before I felt normal again. How frustrating was that? (more…)
















