Getting What You Need From the System: Tips for Advocating
By Stephanie Mensh | Friday, August 20th, 2010
Our series on Patient Advocacy kicks off with today’s post. Over the next week, we will hear from a variety of women about their personal journeys and professional experiences. Early in September we will compile these posts, along with our August Man of the Month’s and blog talk radio interviews, into an e-book. As always, we look forward to your comments.
By Stephanie Mensh. When my husband, Paul Berger suffered his stroke, we were both in our 30′s, established in our careers, and planning for the future. We wanted to continue our active lifestyle, which meant overcoming Paul’s disabilities and pulling services out of many different organizations, each with their own roadblocks. I became Paul’s advocate. Here are my tips for successful advocacy to get what your survivor needs from the system.
There are three types of advocacy: (1) personal advocacy by individuals, family members, friends or others to obtain benefits and services from public or private service providers; (2) legal advocacy by a lawyer to navigate legal processes; and (3) political or policy advocacy by lobbyists and concerned citizens to change government systems.
Personal Advocacy
Most caregivers learn to be personal advocates by “on-the-job” training, usually starting with hospital, medical, and therapy providers, then health insurance. Here are some tips to help you improve your personal advocacy:
- Make a written list of your needs and questions, and go after the most important first.
- Research as much as possible from insurance policies, medical brochures, treatment plans, and other sources.
- Talk to other caregivers and ask for advice, especially for the names and phone numbers and emails of people who were helpful to them.
- Call and ask for the person or department that specifically handles the services or questions you need answered. Ask for the exact spelling of that person’s name.
- Write down the date, time, person’s name, and topic discussed in any phone calls. Keep this in a file with your other materials and research.
- Be persistent. This may mean calling every day. This may also mean asking another family member or friend to call on your behalf.
- If you feel that your questions are not being answered, or you are not getting the appropriate services, find an outside professional, agency or organization that can intervene on your behalf.







