May 2010 Foremothers’ Awards Luncheon (National Research Center for Women and Families): Remarks of Ruth Watson Lubic, CNM, EdD
By Ruth Lubic | Friday, June 25th, 2010
By Ruth Lubic. It is my distinct honor to be an awardee of this prestigious organization along with Dr. Omega Logan Silva and Diane Rehm. I thank Katharine Weymouth for her enlightening opening words as well.
We awardees have been asked to speak briefly about “… how times have changed (or not) for women over the years.” I would like to do this from two perspectives, first that of the management of the childbirth experience in the 1950′s when my son, Douglas, was born and also from that of the acceptance and utilization of midwives in this country in a similar time frame. Keep in mind that my husband, Bill and I are “children of the Great Depression” and were taught to live frugally and to care about folks less fortunate than ourselves.
BIRTH IN THE 1950′s was often managed by the routine use of Demerol, a pain killer and scopalomine, an amnesiac, so that women would not “remember” the experience. Laboring women, (there were no family members permitted), were restricted to a bed with padded side rails so their erratic drug-induced behavior would not harm them or their fetuses and when moved to the delivery room, had their hands cuffed in leather bracelets to the side of the delivery table so that they could not touch their “clean” baby with their “dirty” hands. How destructive of a mother’s instincts to hold and provide needed bonding with the new baby! And how destructive of her perceptions of her ability to be a “good” mother when she might have vague memories of her negative behavior in labor. Today, there are differing settings to cater to the mother’s and family’s choices, with the nurse-midwifery operated freestanding birth center being the one with which I am most familiar. The original Childbearing Center in Manhattan’s Carnegie Hill neighborhood was set up to offer sensitive care to young families who, disenchanted with conventional care, were engaging in “do-it-yourself” home birth, with little or no prenatal care and fathers catching their babies, a potentially very unsafe plan. The success of the CbC evoked a response from hospitals in the form of in-hospital birth rooms, which, for the most part convert to standard delivery rooms and, even when fathers are present, usually do not offer any control, or even partnership, to the laboring family. (more…)





