Raising Teenagers: Are We Ever Really Prepared?
By Meryl Bloomrosen | Tuesday, March 22nd, 2011
By Meryl Bloomrosen. “They” say that being a teenager is NOT easy. Well, being the parent of a teenager is certainly isn’t easy either. And it is usually the case that all of us will experience some bumps along the way.
Yet, to some such concerns and crises seem insignificant or trite in comparison to recent headlines such as those about the Tsunami, earthquake and nuclear reactor explosions in Japan; Haitian elections; social unrest and justice in Egypt and elsewhere; and attacks in Libya. Or the ongoing headlines about the economic meltdowns on Wall Street; bank, savings and loans failures; or the continuing high unemployment statistics; and plummeting real estate values. Or even NCAA March madness.
Although, there has been periodic news and media attention on teen and school bullying and some new efforts are in process to take a look at this growing challenge. It has been in the past several weeks, months and years, that I have learned about adolescent mental health services along with a bit about the legal/justice and educational systems. Having worked in the health care “system” for almost 35 years, I thought that I was fairly well informed…I was wrong.
Maybe it was the early morning phone call stating that the teen was being taken to the county emergency crisis unit. Or how about the parent who called 911 and was (thankfully) coached to “say the right thing” because the teen was standing in the house with two huge kitchen knives pointed at himself? Or the parents who got the phone call asking them to come down to the police station because of their teen’s arrests at an underage drinking party. Or the parents who came home one night and found their teen unconscious suffering from what turned out to be alcohol poisoning. Or maybe it was the parents whose teen jumped out of the window at her therapeutic boarding school in spite of the promise of 24/7 supervision? Or maybe it was the crisis center stating that given the history the teen needed to be evaluated at an emergency department because the teen posed a safety threat to self? Only the crisis center did not seem to know any local “teen-appropriate EDs”. (more…)




