Learning to be Your Own Best Advocate
By Grace Bender | Wednesday, September 1st, 2010
By Grace Bender. Everyone needs to be their own healthcare advocate. I realized this when I noticed my mother struggling to manage the numerous medications she was taking. With so many prescriptions and over-the counter medications to keep track of, I was concerned about her taking the correct dosages at the correct times and following all the various instructions.
So I decided to create a medication chart that allowed her to track her medications more easily and ensure she was taking them correctly. We then showed the chart to each of her physicians and pharmacist. The result was a dramatic change in my mother’s medication regimen. The chart enabled her physicians to view what they and all her other doctors were prescribing. They soon realized just how many medications she was on and that some medications were actually counteracting others. Many prescriptions were changed or stopped and over time she went from taking 16 medications to nine.
Adverse events related to medications are the fourth leading cause of death in U.S. for patients over the age of 65. This startling statistic led me into the patient-advocate role. Since that time my own experiences have continued to reinforce my belief that individuals need to take control of their health and work to make sure all their healthcare providers, caregivers, and/or family members are working together as a team.
After being faced with several health scares in 2008, I decided to have an MRI breast scan for peace of mind. I had learned that the scan was the best diagnostic and screening tool for women with large, dense breasts and a family history of breast cancer. Since I had a mammogram six months earlier, which was normal, my physician did not think the MRI was necessary. However, I decided to have one to be certain I was breast-cancer free. To everyone’s surprise, the scan revealed three spots that biopsies confirmed to be multifocal breast cancer. Since I knew my own body and had educated myself about available screenings, I may have saved my life because I was told a mammogram might have taken years to pick up the spots. This may not be the right course for every woman, but everyone should know that this tool exists. (more…)






